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Sep 22Liked by Christopher P. DeLorenzo

Growing old is a gift, I cherish. My greatest commodity is time. The recent loss of my father has emphasized how very precious this life opportunity is. Whatever moments I get to live, regardless of the rainbow of emotional, undulation that colors them, are my only opportunity to color with my rainbow of human being-ness. CHEERS to coloring with tension and the paradox of life evolves...just for the Health of IT!

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Thank you for this, Tina. Loss is a teacher, I think. A teacher of hard lessons! I love your rainbow metaphor.

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Sep 22Liked by Christopher P. DeLorenzo

I’m only 52 so going grey wearing glasses etc is new. I see the horizon with less denial now. I see the pain coming from attachment. It’s like yes we were young and pretty once but were we really? An image can’t think. It was the timeless mind that was always watching. Now shocked and bummed by the wrinkles and approaching infirmity. Why? Because the mind is still vital. I choose mind over body.

Still wish I was that hot breakdancer of my youth though!

Thanks for the prompt

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Thanks for this thoughtful, introspective response. I find this whole aging thing complicated and also sacred.

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Sep 21Liked by Christopher P. DeLorenzo

What a great title! and one which is ME ME ME.

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I owe the title to my friend, Kaye.

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Sep 21Liked by Christopher P. DeLorenzo

I guess I’d have to say I’m very, very lucky. So glad I get to share this journey with you. I love the way this piece feels like it really incorporates the best and the worst and highlights the ways in which many of those things result from choices — while some don’t. We’re on the same page, I’ve just read a tiny bit into the next chapter.

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So thankful for you.

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